This Trans Teen Won't Let Trolls Ruin Her Homecoming Queen Win - Teen Vogue
Tristan Young, a 17-year-old senior in Oak Park, Missouri, never thought she would be crowned homecoming queen — it didn’t seem like it was in the cards for her high school experience. Young is transgender, and she once thought she wouldn’t transition until after high school because it seemed easier that way. By sophomore year, however, she realized she couldn’t wait, so she came out, and was supported by her friends, teachers, and peers. Though she never imagined it, Young was chosen as her high school’s homecoming queen just two years after her transition.
Unfortunately, the joy of the moment was sullied when right-wing media and commentators picked up the story and used it as the latest weapon in their culture wars. Still, Young is holding strong, staying focused on the unbridled joy she felt when she won the crown.
Teen Vogue catches up with Young to talk about homecoming, the right-wing attacks, and what she wants young trans people to know. The following interview has been condensed and edited for clarity.
Teen Vogue: What was the day of homecoming like?
Tristan Young: I was so nervous! I woke up, got my Starbucks, and was so focused on getting my eyeliner straight. I did it! [For my walkout song], I chose “Style” by Taylor Swift — my blue dress was giving 1989. My escort was my mother and my banner holders were my two best friends, Ava and Gracie.
It was perfect when I walked out. I was surrounded by the people I love the most. And there was this immense noise from every corner of the gym and it was cheering and continuous. We were just screaming and it felt so good.
TV: Tell me about when you were crowned.
Young: Oh, my God. They said, “Your 2023 homecoming queen is Miss Tristan Young!” And I totally... I was so shocked, because you feel something, and you feel it, but then actually getting to that point is a completely different feeling. It was such a pure moment of excitement and joy and happiness. I wouldn't trade it for the world.
TV: When you were younger, did you ever think this would be your life?
